Never let it be said the woman are the submissive in a relationship. Especially when it comes to dating! Let's face it, when a guy walks up to a woman in a bar, at the grocery store or does so "virtually" online, we all know that it is us girls that control the direction of the conversation from that moment on. We have the opportunity to either accept or reject this gentleman caller's proposal. Now, how we choose to do that is different for each of us, but that is a whole other article! So, ladies, here are a few tips to help us succeed in this maze of emotion. After all, dating should be fun whether it is online or offline! 1. Know that you are a sexy creature and that the reason this fine man has come to see you is not because of your personality! It is because he likes what he has seen. Whether it is because you are naturally beautiful or because you were showing a little extra cleavage on the dance floor! 2. Know that it is your choice how to respond. If you are interested, flirt playfully and be flattered that he had the courage to come up and talk to you. If you are not interested, usually a simple “thanks for coming over, I know it takes courage, but I am not interested" usually does the trick. 3. Use your head! If you do like him, don't be so “hard to get" that he loses interest! Be playful, not slutty, but for goodness sake, make sure he knows you are interested! 4. Start slow, even if you want to rip his clothes off and take him to the bathroom for a quickie! Sometimes we forget that we have a lot of power with our sexuality and while it shouldn't be used for manipulation, it is an important part of the romance in any relationship. 5. If you have enjoyed the initial conversations and interaction, ask him to lunch or some other low-pressure date. This way you can confirm if the person you met today is the same person you may want to spend more time with. From this point, everyone has a different opinion about moving forward, but in the end, do what feels right and what is sensible. Above all, have a blast! Some of the most exciting memories in any relationship are during the first few weeks of getting to know him! Good Luck Girls!!! Jessica xoxoxoxoxo | 
