Sex researchers concur that in this day and age so many women are committing adultery. At the same time, more and more women are working outside the home alongside men, oftentimes in office environments that are charged with sexual electricity. So the question is how do you find out if the women that you’ve met online is married or has a significant other besides you? Here a few ways.

They do it for love. They do it for sex. They do it to feel beautiful and boost their self-esteem. No, we're not talking about why women get married, but why women cheat on the men they have married.

She wants to meet you soon after you’ve just met online.

 Most women know that they need to take extra precautions when it comes to meeting a complete stranger. A woman that is married or involved will try to meet you soon after meeting you online. She more than likely wants to make an immediate date because she is only interested in a fling.

She is ready for sex almost instantly

If she brings it up on the first date, chances are that is all that she is looking for. It could be because she just wants to hook up for sex, but more than likely it is because she is married. Stephan Jackson a 44-year-old real estate agent from Austin who made the married-woman mistake, says, "At first I was flattered that Sarah was so into me. She would call me and tell me how much she couldn’t wait to see me. After a while I started to see that all she was after was sex. I then figured out that she was a married woman

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You're not invited into her home or into her life.

If a woman is very secretive about her family and home life, you need to be careful. It is very true that a woman needs to be safe, but if time has passed and she has been to your house and or you have been intimate with her, she should be very open and happy for you to meet her family and come to her home.

Also beware if you can go to her home, but only at certain times. There is nothing wrong with you just coming straight out and asking if she is married.

Few pointers for success

Be positive. Focus on attracting the man that you are looking for. If you have attracted a few married men, try making some adjustments, pay closer attention to red flags and good things will happen.

Be careful how you word your profile. Don't be too provocative or suggestive. Try not to come across as a needy or vulnerable. That can attract the wrong people. Make clear that honesty and integrity are your hallmarks. Good guys are out there.

Cut your losses. The fact of the matter is, you just never know what you will get. Cut out the undesirable dates as quickly as you can by being an 'aware' online dater."  You will so much more ahead of the game this way. Don’t be discouraged by the married men that you may come across.