Online dating can be exceptionally prolific and enjoyable. What a lot of women don’t realize is that some of the men that are trying to get their attention are actually married.  It is very easy for one to be dishonest in who they truly are online.

More than likely over half of the women that are using online dating have come a cross a situation where they find out that the man they really liked is married. Here are some tips to help you realize that you are dealing with a married man before things go too far.

He will contact you first

It is not difficult to initiate the first online encounter. In most cases, the married man will send the first form of communication, whether that is a chat message or a short email. You will typically find that a man who is lying about his marital status will use a short intro and then the body of the note will be questions that identify what kind of person you are. Chances are if they can pick up that you are vulnerable and sweet they will continue to communicate with you. If they sense that you are naïve, they will prey on that fact and peg you to be someone that they can manipulate into believing just about anything they say. These details can be very difficult to ascertain for a married man who is new to the online dating world, but there are also ‘professional married men’ who do have experience with online dating and deception, and they know just the right questions to ask. The first few communications shared are what they use to decipher if you could be an easy target.

No Picture, Group Picture or Grainy Picture

Any married man that thinks that there is no way that someone he knows will see his picture is a fool. Most married men are very aware of this and will post nothing or a picture that they are hard to find in because there is a big group.  Instead of posting their photos online, they may choose to email you a picture to your personal email address. If someone does not have a picture posted or has something posted you can barely see, be leery.

Irregular Calls or Set Times

Once the two of you have established that there is a mutual liking, you may hear from him a lot or it will be very irregular. Married men have to call you on their own convenience. Good times for them to call you are on their way home from work and late at night. They have to schedule their times around their married lives to make time to call you. If they work at night they will call you from work or when they go on a break. This could be very late in the evenings. Take note of the time that he calls you if you have suspicions.  Be very aware of the times that he is calling you. Ask yourself questions, such as:

1) Is it always the same time? 

2) Do you hear from him everyday? 

3) Where is he calling you from?

If this man is leading a double life, the answers to these questions will make a lot of sense to you.