Very often men are pegged for infidelity. Just as much as they have their cake and ate it too, women have played the game as well. So, you meet a sweet woman online and you start to chat with her. You know that she likes you, but something just isn’t right. It could be what you least expect. She is married with children. So how do you protect yourself and your heart from being played? The tips below will make you pay close attention to certain behaviors.
She asked you for your phone number, but refuses to give you hers.
Now this is kind of easy for a woman to get a way with. Men tend to let a woman take the lead when it comes to what her comfort level is. She will typically ask for your phone number pretty quickly because she is eager to have this affair or has a lot of experience in doing this. She may tell you that she wants to put a voice to your handsome face to get what she wants.
If you notice that she is not willing to give you the same thing that she is requesting of you, you may want to hold off on giving it to her for a while. It might be a better idea to write back, requesting she share her number with you first. Whatever you decide to do, just be very careful with your first initial phone conversation with her. If you have chosen to go ahead and give out your number without getting hers, be sure that you ask for her number when she does finally call you. More than likely her information will be blocked when she calls.
Don’t assume that every woman that doesn’t offer up the digits is married.
She may just be a woman that is very old fashioned, and refuses to have a man call her too soon.
Her Responses May be Inconsistent
Obviously, married women have ‘family lives’, so they may not be as available to get online and respond to you as quickly as a woman who is single and has a lot of free time on her hands. If she seems to be countering at the same time every day and the amount of days between the emails are irregular, then you might have a spouse and kids on your hands. It could also be that he is just a very busy person with either work or outside life events. But, this detail should be watched closely and examined when meeting a new person online.
Every time you call you have to leave a message
If she regulates your mind to know that you will always get her voicemail it will just seem natural to leave a message. The reason she does this is so that she can schedule when she calls you. Chances are if she cannot call you between 7 in the morning and 8 at night, she has a household that she has to run. You may even have to wait hours before she is able to return your call, with some story about not having her phone at work, or the phone being in a place where she didn’t have reception. This does not mean that there are not legitimately busy women in this world. Just be leery.
