Monthly Archives: May 2011
The D in BDSM
Dominance (and Submission): The erotic concept of dominance and submission involves the voluntary act of one person giving power over themselves to another person (sometimes multiples of either) who then uses behavioral modification techniques to psychologically train them. The important … Continue reading
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The B in BDSM
I need a vacation of will! It has been a whirlwind of a month for me so far; I have had to make difficult decisions and work under insane deadlines! Being a natural submissive, that is FUCKING EXHAUSTING! Bondage and … Continue reading
One man’s weirdo is another man’s fuck buddy
As you leaf through other people’s profiles looking for ideas on how to set yours up or update one you already have, try to remember that the world is made up of lots of types. So, as you sit there … Continue reading
Fantasies (the primer)
It is an odd thing to listen to people talk about suppressing their fantasies as if they are wrong. (Note here that I am not going near religion with a ten foot pole in this post. Your religion is your … Continue reading
The definition of a sandwich
Did you immediately think of peanut butter and jelly or were you thinking more along the lines of a BLT? Ha. Get food out of your mind and put it in the gutter. Have you ever made a human sandwich? … Continue reading
Tagged As: boyfriend, gender, girlfriend, life, sex, social
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Politics and Escorts
Politicians – from the State Rep to the President of the US – are all on power trips. They had to fight to win their position, so with that win it brings a certain ego to the table. We all … Continue reading
Police Cracking Down on Escorts
When it comes to sex scandals, do they seem to come out in groups? And right before important events, such as elections? Well duh. Those politicians are as crooked as they come, they just have a lot more money at … Continue reading
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I love masturbating.
I have made it an art form, I assure you! I remember that it started with curiosity, actually. As a young girl, you learn to associate “down there” with peeing. But even after you understand two thirds of your holes … Continue reading
Tagged As: cock, cumming, dildo, orgasms, sexual
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You don’t own me.
What rules can we really enforce upon our secondary lovers? Of course there are the basic rules that you every right to impress upon those you have sex with. You can either play with me safely or you can play … Continue reading
How to Bag a Couple (Part 2)
So, the couple contacted you, or responded receptively to your contact! Well done! Now what?! READ THEIR PROFILE…TWICE! Yes, twice. If their profile says anything that rules you out, do not lie. If you lie, and then you bring drama … Continue reading