I did a search today for a possible weekend playmate. This week is shaping up to be ridiculously stressful, so I need someone to romp with this weekend to get out some of the pent up frustration. As I searched, I was taken aback by how many people use a picture of their genitals and expect me to bite. Got me thinking….
How does a single person get invited into bed by a couple?
Round yourself out a little. There are plenty of ways that you can develop a persona and rapport with couples; however, making the cock shot your profile default and not giving good details is NOT the way to achieve the invite.
Here is what I look for when I am profile searching:
- Consider using a profile picture that shows something other than your cock hanging out.
Give me some guidelines for my fantasies. Think you won’t attract me? Give me the dignity of making that decision for myself! I can promise you that if I do set up a meeting and you look nothing like the persona you created on your profile, you will get no play. You certainly will not get a second chance.
- Choose the wording for your profile carefully.
This may be a sexual tryst for you, but it could be entirely different for them. Couples in the lifestyle are most likely looking to enrich their sex lives or fulfill their sexual needs without dealing with drama. Your profile is the one shot you have to convince them that you will respect the woman, the man, their relationship and their future. Husbands and boyfriends will default to protecting their woman, so couples are not going to contact you if your profile sounds like that may be an issue. (Having few or no spelling and grammar errors will likely help attract a higher caliber of playmates.)
- Know the rules before you start interacting with the couple intimately.
If you piss of the male, you are probably done for. Once a couple bans you, very rarely will they ever reconsider. Ask them what is appropriate if they don’t out and out state it.
Lastly, DO NOT IGNORE THE “DO NOT DISTURB” SIGN!
If their profile states ‘no single men/women,’ then move along. Your charm is probably not going to change that. Your persistence will only remind them why they don’t play with singles.
