Monthly Archives: September 2011
Triple Word Score: A BDSM Fantasy
I had lost the game of Scrabble when he placed the final letters for ‘vociferous’ across a Triple Word space. This would not be so bad if I hadn’t talked so much “smack” to him about being better at the … Continue reading
Tagged As: bdsm, bondage, cathartic, corporal punishment, crop, discipline, dominant, flogging, friends with benefits, master, punishment, restraint, sexual fantasies, sexual torture, slave, spanking, St. Andrew's Cross, submissive, whipping, whips
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The Power of the Quickie
Reading Skopos’ morning post kinda put me in the mood to write about the ways that quickies (sudden, fast and often unexpected sexual intercourse) can enrich your sexual experience. The idea of a quickie is frequently shrugged off after the initial blush … Continue reading
Tagged As: one night stand, quick sex, quickie, sex in a car, sex in an elevator, sex in public
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Quickly Now
Sometimes you just don’t have time to do all the things you want to do. Sometimes you don’t even have time to do the things you need to do either. When it came time for me to head off to … Continue reading
Tagged As: clothed sex, laundry room, quickie, sex without ejaculation, washing machine sex
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Vegetarian Sex
The phrase “vegetarian sex” is brand new to me; someone used it in my presence recently. Of course I had to ask what on earth vegetarian sex is, and the answer was so simple that I slapped my forehead: Vegetarian … Continue reading
Tagged As: bukkake, insertion, lesbian, oral sex, semen, sexual health, sit on my face, vaginal health, vegetarian sex
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No Picture; No Chance
Okay, I get it: You are on an alternative dating/hook-up site, and you don’t want to broadcast who you are. We have professional lives, and all that. I even adhere to the concept of relative anonymity. If you check out my … Continue reading
Tagged As: attracting men, attracting women, dating profile, honesty, how to attract, misrepresentation, nude photos, online dating, online predators, online safety, sexual images
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Marital Bliss
You have found your soulmate, fallen in love, lived together, gotten engaged, and finally sealed the deal in front of a justice of the peace or a minister. Now the fun begins…right? Something psychological happens to people after they tie … Continue reading
Open Relationships: The Basic Types
More and more couples are throwing in the towel on monogamous relationships. There are many reasons for this, including bad past experiences, the desire to remain sexually non-committed, they are not fulfilled by a traditional relationship…the list goes on. So, … Continue reading
Tagged As: adultry, cheating, lovers, multiamory, multiple lovers, multiple partners, online dating, open marriages, open relationships, polyamory, polyphilia, rules of engagement
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MWF Seeking F for FWB
So, now that I seem to have gotten over my last woman-induced heartburn, I am considering finding a woman that will work well within a FWB (friends with benefits) arrangement. Bisexuality was one of those things that simply always has … Continue reading
Tagged As: bisexual, bisexuality, casual sex, friends that fuck, friends with benefits, girl-on-girl, homosexual, lesbians, oral sex, tribbing
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Dominant/Submissive Versus Master/Slave in BDSM
Let me start by saying that the variety in types of BDSM relationships is as extensive as the number of people involved in it. Every single inter- and intra-personal characteristic of these unique relationships make them practical singularities. Still, there … Continue reading
Tagged As: bdsm, BDSM switch, bottom, dominance, dominant, fetish, master, power exchange, restraint, safe words, servant, serving, sexual boundaries, slave, submissive, submissiveness, top, training
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Sex Machines Are Intimidating, But I Still Wanna Try One!
Masturbation is a staple in my sex life; I enjoy it. Dildos with suction cups are my favorite, because you can simulate sex without having to use your hands. They are still somewhat restrictive, though, since you need a surface … Continue reading