Why the hell is it that everybody on alternative sexual dating websites treats others as if they are there for THEIR pleasure? Wake up people, we are all here to get off, and we are all selfish. For this to work, you have to give a little to get a little.
At one point, my husband and I were looking for a couple to hook up with, and we were contacted by a couple that, at first glance, met our non-negotiable criterion. The first message exchanges went well, but then it became obvious that they were viewing us as a means to their end rather than fellow adventurers. First, a text to my husband from the wife: “Entertain me.” Then a message to me from the husband: “What can you do for me?”
Game over. Those two never even met us face-to-face.
My point: Treat everyone you meet on social networks (EVEN THE REALLY KINKY ONES) as equals walking the same path toward sexual exploration and not as a tool to get off on unless they ask for otherwise. Ask them pertinent questions and reward them with the opportunity to do the same. If you are going to ask someone, “What can you do for me?”…the next thing out of your mouth should be, “Now, what can I do for you?”
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