Monthly Archives: February 2012
The Daring Dance Toward Same-Sex Marriage
Last week was pretty eventful in the arena of same-sex marriages. The States of Washington, Maryland and New Jersey all either completed the process of legalizing such unions or made a huge step in that direction. Additionally, the U.S. Justice … Continue reading
Tagged As: bisexual, civil unions, Defense of Marriage Act, DOMA, Don't Ask, Don't Tell, gay in the military, gay marriage, homosexual, legalize gay marriage, lesbian marriage, same-sex marriage
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Children and Gender Reassignment Surgery
Honestly, I cannot fathom how it must feel to look at one’s own body and to feel that it doesn’t fit who you are inside to the depth of gender. I am not talking about the skinny girl trying to … Continue reading
Tagged As: gender reassignment surgery, genital reconstruction surgery, GLBT, LGBT, sex change, shemale, transgender, transsexual, vaginoplasty
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Attend To Your Posture: The Not-So-Vanilla Personal Version
Earlier, I posted an article on maintaining good posture for dating in the Vanilla world. Now, I wish to attend to my confessions. For me, the back view of a person is essential to the level of attraction I will … Continue reading
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Attend To Your Posture: The Vanilla Version
For a large part of modern American history, and beyond, our upper society has valued the posture of its members. “Sit up straight!” was its battle cry at dinner tables throughout the Western World. Does our posture somehow signal our … Continue reading
Honesty is the Necessary Policy for Lifestylers
I have enough experience in a small variety of Lifestyle activities to know that secrets can spin out of control very quickly. I have seen it happen with friends time and time again. This is why I struggle with the … Continue reading
Tagged As: agreement, cheating, dating, friends that fuck, full disclosure, gay, GLBT, lesbian, lifestyle rules, lifestyler, love, master, mistress, online dating, polyamory, relationship, relationship rules, romance, rules of engagement, swingers
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My Valentine’s Day Error
Valentine’s Day is a holiday that I do not typically celebrate. I have relegated it to the list of “Hallmark holidays,” which I believe were created to spur sales. I have argued that we should love our partners actively every day and … Continue reading
Tagged As: cheap and easy Valentine's Day gifts, cupid, quick gifts, relationships and holidays, romance, Valentine's Day
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Speaking a Dirty Mind
My thoughts are so filthy and depraved that speaking them face-to-face with another person makes me blush and hide my face. Oh, but I love my thoughts. I revel in them with all their grimy, perverse beauty. I enjoy submersing my consciousness … Continue reading
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Speak Out During Sex
It is a skilled lover, indeed, that can bring you closer to orgasm simply by what they say and the sounds they make during the foreplay, lifestyle activities and sex. Commands, compliments, fantasies and raw truths push the edge of taboo for many … Continue reading
Tagged As: screaming orgasm, sexial intercourse, talking during sex, vocalizations intercourse
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School Sex Scandals Infuriate Me
I am a submissive, calm woman, but I am a ferocious defender of children’s safety and rights. I was disgusted by a recent occurrence in a Los Angeles school. Apparently, a veteran teacher at Miramonte Elementary School was known to … Continue reading
Stigmatophilia
The word ‘stigma’ originated from a Greek word describing a tattoo mark or the prick of something sharp. The Romans called slave tattoos and brands “stigma.” In our society, a stigma is not a good thing. It typically means a mark … Continue reading