Author Archives: Siren
Lifestyle or Kink?
Are you in the lifestyle, or are you just flat out kinky? I get asked questions like this a lot on social networks. One has to be quite careful when answering this question because the answer you give could have completely different connotations … Continue reading
Tagged As: bdsm, bondage, discipline, dominance, dominant, fantasy, fetish, lifestyle, master, mistress, polyamory, romance, sex, slave, submission, submissive, swinger, swingers, swinging, threesome, voyeur
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I Heart Bisexual Porn!
Truthfully, double-penetration is my favorite type of porn; however, I find that bisexual DPs are far more enjoyable to watch than MFM ones. Same position; different attitude. There is something about bisexual porn that makes me squirm in my seat: … Continue reading
Tagged As: Bi-curious, bisexual, blgt, double penetration, DP, gay, LGBT, multisexual, pansexual, porn, pornography, skin flicks, threesome
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A Social Life’s Worst Enemy: Time
I am losing my mind trying to keep all of my balls in the air! There was a point in my life when I craved a social life and desperately wanted more friends. I had spent several years dedicating all … Continue reading
Tagged As: alternative dating arrangements, busy schedule romance, dating professionals, lifestyle playmates, online dating, open relationships, polyamory, polyphilia, sexting, social life, social networks, texting men, texting women, time for dating, work and relationships
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The First D/s Session With My New Master
Much like any fantasy one is trying to fulfill, the reality of it often has both positive and negative aspects. For example, I recently courted a dominant man who really rang my bell in the way he spanked me and … Continue reading
Tagged As: bdsm, bondage, casual sex, discipline, dominance, dominant, fantasy, fetish, friends that fuck, friends with benefits, master, mistress, sex, slave, submission, submissive
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Compersion: I’m An Animal Trapped in Your Hot Car
When my primary Partner goes away for a few nights, I am completely at a loss for what to do while I am alone. Yet, I constantly crave alone time when I cannot have it. I have so many feelings … Continue reading
To Unfriend or Not to Unfriend?
THAT is the question! The advent of Internet social networking has ushered in a strange phenomenon: indiscriminate and immediate friendship. Okay, so we are not taking on a soul mate or best friend whenever we request or accept an “add” … Continue reading
Tagged As: accepting friend requests, declining friend requests, dumped online, friending, internet dating, internet safety, networking profile, online break-up, online dating, online escorts, online safety, social networking, un-friending, unfriending
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My Female Lover…Not Quite Yet
My best of friends have always been boys; I simply trust them faster and enjoy their personalities more. Having spent such a huge part of my life growing up and developing around the males of my species, I have come … Continue reading
Tagged As: bisexual, casual sex, friends that fuck, friends with benefits, GLBT, homosexual, lesbian, LGBT, polyamory, relationship, romance, sex, sexual
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Communication: Two Masters, One Sub
Well, here is a completely new situation that I have landed myself in: I have a primary partner that is indelible and a Dom who is having a real go at being my Master. I had anticipated many things, but … Continue reading
Tagged As: a submissive with two dominants;, bdsm, bondage, discipline, dominance, dominant, fetish, friends that fuck, lifestyle, master, mistress, polyamory, slave, submission, submissive, voyeur
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Good Friends Vs. Black Holes
We all have one: a friend that needs our support pretty much all the time. Being there for friends in need is important to the nurturing of deep, personal relationship ties. However, problems begin to arise when a friend takes-and-takes without giving … Continue reading
Tagged As: being a good friend, dealing with negative people, ending friendships, friends that fuck, friends with benefits, friendship, friendship sex, negative thoughts, positive thoughts
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BDSM Affidavits of Consent
If you think vanilla relationships come with surprises, you should see what comes with alternative lifestyle arrangements! It is almost as if every day holds a surprise; some are good, and some are bad. For the purposes of this blog, … Continue reading