Author Archives: Siren
Make More Money While Webcamming
I have spoken before on how webcamming is an excellent source of income for individuals who do their research, take precautions and persevere at the work. Just as there are niche markets in the porn video industry, there are specific … Continue reading
Tagged As: camgirl, camguy, internet porn, online dating, webcam, webcamming
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Target: Sexual Harassment
Individuals who prefer alternative relationship lifestyles typically have dating parameters that are not in line with the norm. Our radars often pick up different signals than our vanilla peers. This makes protecting yourself from being accused of sexual harassment at work very … Continue reading
Tagged As: bdsm, employment, lifestyle, sexual advances, sexual harassment, unwanted advances
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Their Worse Half
You would think that living the lifestyle (swinging, if you prefer) would result in lots of couples to play with at whim. Well, actually it does; the catch, however, is that the ones that are worth it take a LOT … Continue reading
Tagged As: lifestyle, multiple lovers, swingers, swinging, threesome, wife swapping
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Costume Conundrum
I am renowned for waiting until the very last minute to begin my Samhain (Halloween) costume every year. I have known the basic idea behind the costume for months. I have now gotten so far as to break my sewing … Continue reading
Sexual Snake Oil?
Sex sells: marketing 101. When you add to that fact that people are terrified of losing the ability to have sex, you will find that many consumers will ‘try anything’ to pick their sex up off the floor. I recently … Continue reading
Tagged As: American Medical Association, arousal, Female Sexual Dysfunction, FSD, herbal, herbal remedies, herbs, libido, libido enhancer, sex enhancement, sex supplements
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Updating Online Profiles
I think I have a problem…I am addicted to updating my alt lifestyle, online profile every time my tastes and desires shift. I am so scared that I will be contacted by people that do not fit into what I … Continue reading
Tagged As: alternative dating websites, online dating, online profile, online safety, personal security, sexual preference, social networking, social profile
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Snowballing Goal
I was 32 the first time I ever heard the word “snowball” used in any sort of sexual context. One of my male friends was simply sharing his fetishes with me and ‘snowballing’ was one of them. Years later, now … Continue reading
Tagged As: bi, bisexual, blow job, cum, gay, oral sex, semen, snowballing
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Did I Come On Too Strong?
A man randomly messages me on a vanilla, social network to tell me that I am beautiful and seem to be a dominant looking for a sub. (BTW, vanilla means ‘everyday plain’)That was his first mistake. My vanilla profile is SO locked down, you … Continue reading
How Dare you?!
It is funny the things in the lifestyle that still bother me, even after all of the time I have been into the kink. Yet, there are some doozies that I knew beyond a shadow of a doubt that I … Continue reading
Tagged As: celebrity sex friendships, friends that fuck, friends with benefits, ftf, fwb, lifestyle, nsa sex, playmates, polyamory, swingers
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Seeking My Dominatrix Style
I have been going about this COMPLETELY wrong. I want to become a dominatrix: Mistress Siren. Mmmmhmmm. So, I did the logical thing: I bought some books on the topic, started watching videos online and I began to fantasize all … Continue reading
Tagged As: bdsm, bondage, bottom, discipline, dom, dominance, dominant, mistress, sub, submissive, top, training
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