Author Archives: Siren
The Inner Circle: Unbridled Sexual Adventurers
We have developed a unique and highly rewarding relationship with a small group of our lifestyle playmates, whom we refer to as our inner circle. There is such trust between us, typically tempered by years of friendship, that we are … Continue reading
Safe Words and Power
Safe words. I have found myself daydreaming lately about what language I will use when I top for the first time. I started researching different safe words that people commonly use. There was the traditional: Green, Yellow and Red. There … Continue reading
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Wins and Losses
So, my missions were to KEEP MY EYES OFF OF THE GROUND so that I could make eye contact with people and to use managerial, time-management skills with my co-workers. I said no a lot today. I delegated, too. I … Continue reading
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Do I have to dominate myself?
Where do I look when I dominate? I am so used to dropping from eye contact by natural habit that I have no idea where my tops were looking. I always supposed they were gazing at me…taking away every expectation … Continue reading
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I need a cock.
Wow, question: Can anyone tell me why every man and woman in my sex life suddenly wants me to strap a dildo on and go at them? I do not look like a man; I assure you. They are not … Continue reading
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From Submissive to Dominant…possible?
Whether you come across the blog as a novice or as an experienced lifestyler, this post has something for you. This is Siren D.P. Tuss…or Siren. I really hope by now that someone…maybe one of you…has been following some of … Continue reading
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The S&M in BDSM
Sadism and Masochism: Sadism occurs when one person gains sexual pleasure from inflicting pain upon, degrading or humiliating a voluntary participant. Masochism is the opposite side of the same coin. On this side, the person being bound, receiving pain, and … Continue reading
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The D in BDSM
Dominance (and Submission): The erotic concept of dominance and submission involves the voluntary act of one person giving power over themselves to another person (sometimes multiples of either) who then uses behavioral modification techniques to psychologically train them. The important … Continue reading
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The B in BDSM
I need a vacation of will! It has been a whirlwind of a month for me so far; I have had to make difficult decisions and work under insane deadlines! Being a natural submissive, that is FUCKING EXHAUSTING! Bondage and … Continue reading
One man’s weirdo is another man’s fuck buddy
As you leaf through other people’s profiles looking for ideas on how to set yours up or update one you already have, try to remember that the world is made up of lots of types. So, as you sit there … Continue reading