Category Archives: BDSM Lifestyle Alt dating
From Submissive to Dominant…possible?
Whether you come across the blog as a novice or as an experienced lifestyler, this post has something for you. This is Siren D.P. Tuss…or Siren. I really hope by now that someone…maybe one of you…has been following some of … Continue reading
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The S&M in BDSM
Sadism and Masochism: Sadism occurs when one person gains sexual pleasure from inflicting pain upon, degrading or humiliating a voluntary participant. Masochism is the opposite side of the same coin. On this side, the person being bound, receiving pain, and … Continue reading
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The D in BDSM
Dominance (and Submission): The erotic concept of dominance and submission involves the voluntary act of one person giving power over themselves to another person (sometimes multiples of either) who then uses behavioral modification techniques to psychologically train them. The important … Continue reading
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The B in BDSM
I need a vacation of will! It has been a whirlwind of a month for me so far; I have had to make difficult decisions and work under insane deadlines! Being a natural submissive, that is FUCKING EXHAUSTING! Bondage and … Continue reading
Fantasies (the primer)
It is an odd thing to listen to people talk about suppressing their fantasies as if they are wrong. (Note here that I am not going near religion with a ten foot pole in this post. Your religion is your … Continue reading
You don’t own me.
What rules can we really enforce upon our secondary lovers? Of course there are the basic rules that you every right to impress upon those you have sex with. You can either play with me safely or you can play … Continue reading
How to Bag a Couple (Part 2)
So, the couple contacted you, or responded receptively to your contact! Well done! Now what?! READ THEIR PROFILE…TWICE! Yes, twice. If their profile says anything that rules you out, do not lie. If you lie, and then you bring drama … Continue reading
How to Bag a Couple (Part 1)
I did a search today for a possible weekend playmate. This week is shaping up to be ridiculously stressful, so I need someone to romp with this weekend to get out some of the pent up frustration. As I searched, … Continue reading
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Watching is Participation
So, you like the concept of the Lifestyle, but you don’t think you could ever be okay with actually having sex with anyone. I mean, maybe it’s okay for your lover to do it. Maybe it’s even a turn-on for … Continue reading
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I Want to Have Anal Sex
By now I have established how much I love sex. Surprisingly, I have never had anal sex, which is ironic considering that double-penetration (D.P.) porn is my favorite. “Excuse me, but your cock is perfect for anal sex. Would … Continue reading