Category Archives: BDSM Lifestyle Alt dating
Did I Come On Too Strong?
A man randomly messages me on a vanilla, social network to tell me that I am beautiful and seem to be a dominant looking for a sub. (BTW, vanilla means ‘everyday plain’)That was his first mistake. My vanilla profile is SO locked down, you … Continue reading
How Dare you?!
It is funny the things in the lifestyle that still bother me, even after all of the time I have been into the kink. Yet, there are some doozies that I knew beyond a shadow of a doubt that I … Continue reading
Tagged As: celebrity sex friendships, friends that fuck, friends with benefits, ftf, fwb, lifestyle, nsa sex, playmates, polyamory, swingers
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Seeking My Dominatrix Style
I have been going about this COMPLETELY wrong. I want to become a dominatrix: Mistress Siren. Mmmmhmmm. So, I did the logical thing: I bought some books on the topic, started watching videos online and I began to fantasize all … Continue reading
Tagged As: bdsm, bondage, bottom, discipline, dom, dominance, dominant, mistress, sub, submissive, top, training
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Triple Word Score: A BDSM Fantasy
I had lost the game of Scrabble when he placed the final letters for ‘vociferous’ across a Triple Word space. This would not be so bad if I hadn’t talked so much “smack” to him about being better at the … Continue reading
Tagged As: bdsm, bondage, cathartic, corporal punishment, crop, discipline, dominant, flogging, friends with benefits, master, punishment, restraint, sexual fantasies, sexual torture, slave, spanking, St. Andrew's Cross, submissive, whipping, whips
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Dominant/Submissive Versus Master/Slave in BDSM
Let me start by saying that the variety in types of BDSM relationships is as extensive as the number of people involved in it. Every single inter- and intra-personal characteristic of these unique relationships make them practical singularities. Still, there … Continue reading
Tagged As: bdsm, BDSM switch, bottom, dominance, dominant, fetish, master, power exchange, restraint, safe words, servant, serving, sexual boundaries, slave, submissive, submissiveness, top, training
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I Am Not Here Just For YOUR Pleasure
Why the hell is it that everybody on alternative sexual dating websites treats others as if they are there for THEIR pleasure? Wake up people, we are all here to get off, and we are all selfish. For this to … Continue reading
Tagged As: lifestyle, multiple lovers, no strings attached sex, nsa sex, online dating, partner swapping, social networking, swinger website
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The Quest for Boundary Play BDSM Porn Helps Develop My Criterion
I was in the mood to get off. That was the spirit in which I entered the internet’s seemingly boundless halls of pornographic stimulations. There is a subcategory of BDSM porn that arouses me greatly: boundary play. It is exactly … Continue reading
When Life Gets In Your Face
I haven’t written for a little while. It feels somewhat surreal that I am settling back into the frame of mind to share what’s on my mind. Sometimes, when I am dealing with any negative feelings toward my lifestyle, I … Continue reading
Dragon*Con Debauchery Day 2: We Met
Suspending one’s reality is what this event is all about. From writer’s workshops to corset shopping and from autograph collections to live performances, Dragon*Con has many layers of pleasure to be had. We woke up rather late and didn’t get out … Continue reading
Tagged As: casual sex, nsa sex, sexual attraction, sexual tension, skopos
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Engage My Surrender (Continued From Engage My Self-Control)
Continued from “Engage My Self-Control” “Sir, yellow, Sir,” I managed to whimper out as the blows across my breasts began to become more than I could stand. He did not reduce the force so much as move to unmarred flesh. … Continue reading
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