Category Archives: Bisexual or Bi-curious
The Daring Dance Toward Same-Sex Marriage
Last week was pretty eventful in the arena of same-sex marriages. The States of Washington, Maryland and New Jersey all either completed the process of legalizing such unions or made a huge step in that direction. Additionally, the U.S. Justice … Continue reading
Tagged As: bisexual, civil unions, Defense of Marriage Act, DOMA, Don't Ask, Don't Tell, gay in the military, gay marriage, homosexual, legalize gay marriage, lesbian marriage, same-sex marriage
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Why Was I Nervous?
I have known that I am bisexual since I was around 13 years-old, and I was not nervous about it at any point when it came to public displays of affection (PDA). I am an outspoken advocate of gay and … Continue reading
Why Do I Need Her?
The first answer to the title question that pops into my mind is very simple: She is my best friend. Yet, it is more than that. It is the fact that she never allows her judgments of me to change how much … Continue reading
The Nine Levels of a Woman’s Orgasm
Eastern sex practices can extend even into the bedroom thanks to the practices of spiritual-sexual Tantric skills. For those that incorporate Taoist sexual practices, withholding orgasms becomes important, specifically getting past the fourth level of the orgasm wherein most women typically climax. According … Continue reading
Tagged As: delayed orgasm, kundalini, sex and the chakras, shakti, tantric sex, taoist sex
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This Music is Just Plain Dirty!
Just last night, I was browzing in consideration of what I might want to talk about this morning when the song “Shalale” by Makyo came on. I found myself pausing my work to listen to the throbbing, sensual sound of … Continue reading
Tagged As: setting the mood, sex music, sexual mood, using music to create atmosphere
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Commitment Phobic in Romance
I have run from romantic commitments for years now, and I don’t know why. I can dive head-first into friendships and be committed indefinitely…even friendships with benefits…but toss in words like love, forever and long-term, I start to get scared. … Continue reading
Tagged As: commitment phobia, friend with benefits, in love with a friend, lesbian and bisexual friendships, limit setting, phobic of commitments, platonic friends, self-control
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Power Bottom: A New Context
The most common context for the term “power bottom” is found within the gay male community. However, I have recently encountered a situation that seems to warrant another use for the term. Before I share the recent discovery, allow me … Continue reading
Tagged As: anal sex, bdsm, bisexual, bottom, discipline, dominance, dominant, fetish, gay, GLBT, homosexual, lesbian, master, mistress, pansexual, power bottom, relationship, slave, submissive, top
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Is “Sluttiness” Contageous
When I was a young girl, my mother would warn me about who I spent time with by saying, “You are who you hang out with.” I get what she was saying: if you are seen with a girl who is a known … Continue reading

