Category Archives: Fetishes and Kinks

Objects or non-sexual body parts that become the focus or part of the ensemble of arousal during sex.

Attend To Your Posture: The Not-So-Vanilla Personal Version

Earlier, I posted an article on maintaining good posture for dating in the Vanilla world. Now, I wish to attend to my confessions. For me, the back view of a person is essential to the level of attraction I will … Continue reading

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Speaking a Dirty Mind

My thoughts are so filthy and depraved that speaking them face-to-face with another person makes me blush and hide my face. Oh, but I love my thoughts. I revel in them with all their grimy, perverse beauty. I enjoy submersing my consciousness … Continue reading

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Stigmatophilia

The word ‘stigma’ originated from a Greek word describing a tattoo mark or the prick of something sharp. The Romans called slave tattoos and brands “stigma.” In our society, a stigma is not a good thing. It typically means a mark … Continue reading

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Call of the Wild: Sexual Encounters Outside

I have this fantasy about having sex outdoors with wreckless abandon. In my mind, the perversions visited on my body and the subsequent screams are done without reservation or shame. This is truly one of my favorite fantasies, but is … Continue reading

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Hematolagnia: Blood-play as a fetish

Periodically, I explore fringe fetishes for the benefit of my BDSM readers. I have found that once a person begins exploring fetishes, they often explore ones which they never thought that they would be interested in. So, it seemed prudent … Continue reading

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On Being Submissive

At one point, I wrote regarding my personal experiment: a foray into the world of the Dominatrix. Truly, if I learned anything from the shallow and swift venture, I learned that I am almost completely submissive when it comes to … Continue reading

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The Nine Levels of a Woman’s Orgasm

Eastern sex practices can extend even into the bedroom thanks to the practices of spiritual-sexual Tantric skills. For those that incorporate Taoist sexual practices, withholding orgasms becomes important, specifically getting past the fourth level of the orgasm wherein most women typically climax. According … Continue reading

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Where is My Master? My Inexperience Shows

Every once in a while, I will write something here and publish it only to find that I don’t actually like the finished product; that is the case with my last BDSM Erotica Series. I liked Part 1, but am … Continue reading

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BDSM Erotica: Patience, My Dear (Part 3 out of 3)

Continued from Part One and Part Two… He spoke calmly and quietly, “I feel that your ability to be patient is eluding you. I work so that I can protect what we have built. You seem to be questioning my … Continue reading

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Pain’s Elevation

A recent conversation with a friend triggered a peculiar reaction in me; we were discussing the fringes of our religious/spiritual belief systems. It was the sort of conversation wherein you gently tiptoe around a concept or truth just to make certain … Continue reading

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