Category Archives: Gay Dating and Relationship Lifestyle Choices
The Daring Dance Toward Same-Sex Marriage
Last week was pretty eventful in the arena of same-sex marriages. The States of Washington, Maryland and New Jersey all either completed the process of legalizing such unions or made a huge step in that direction. Additionally, the U.S. Justice … Continue reading
Tagged As: bisexual, civil unions, Defense of Marriage Act, DOMA, Don't Ask, Don't Tell, gay in the military, gay marriage, homosexual, legalize gay marriage, lesbian marriage, same-sex marriage
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Children and Gender Reassignment Surgery
Honestly, I cannot fathom how it must feel to look at one’s own body and to feel that it doesn’t fit who you are inside to the depth of gender. I am not talking about the skinny girl trying to … Continue reading
Tagged As: gender reassignment surgery, genital reconstruction surgery, GLBT, LGBT, sex change, shemale, transgender, transsexual, vaginoplasty
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Honesty is the Necessary Policy for Lifestylers
I have enough experience in a small variety of Lifestyle activities to know that secrets can spin out of control very quickly. I have seen it happen with friends time and time again. This is why I struggle with the … Continue reading
Tagged As: agreement, cheating, dating, friends that fuck, full disclosure, gay, GLBT, lesbian, lifestyle rules, lifestyler, love, master, mistress, online dating, polyamory, relationship, relationship rules, romance, rules of engagement, swingers
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My Valentine’s Day Error
Valentine’s Day is a holiday that I do not typically celebrate. I have relegated it to the list of “Hallmark holidays,” which I believe were created to spur sales. I have argued that we should love our partners actively every day and … Continue reading
Tagged As: cheap and easy Valentine's Day gifts, cupid, quick gifts, relationships and holidays, romance, Valentine's Day
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Speaking a Dirty Mind
My thoughts are so filthy and depraved that speaking them face-to-face with another person makes me blush and hide my face. Oh, but I love my thoughts. I revel in them with all their grimy, perverse beauty. I enjoy submersing my consciousness … Continue reading
Tagged As: bdsm, bisexual, bondage, discipline, fantasies, fantasy, gang bang, GLBT, master, multiple partners, orgy, pansexual, polyamory, slave, sugar baby, threesome
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Speak Out During Sex
It is a skilled lover, indeed, that can bring you closer to orgasm simply by what they say and the sounds they make during the foreplay, lifestyle activities and sex. Commands, compliments, fantasies and raw truths push the edge of taboo for many … Continue reading
Tagged As: screaming orgasm, sexial intercourse, talking during sex, vocalizations intercourse
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Why Was I Nervous?
I have known that I am bisexual since I was around 13 years-old, and I was not nervous about it at any point when it came to public displays of affection (PDA). I am an outspoken advocate of gay and … Continue reading
Want to Improve your Libido and Stamina?
If you came here looking for the quick fix (pill, operation, hypnotism), you came to the wrong place. Only those of you who are SERIOUS about improving your desire and endurance in sex will be interested in my advice. It … Continue reading
Tagged As: attractiveness, libido, longevity, mojo, sex drive, sexual endurance, staying attractive
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Where is the Horizon?
Just a personal rant for tonight: A few months ago, my partner and I were watching a TV show wherein a man rode a weather balloon into the upper atmosphere. He almost reached the point of no freefall return when … Continue reading
Tagged As: commitment phobia, friends with benefits, what is love
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Keeping the Lines of Communication Open
When there is something on your heart that you are afraid to tell your partner(s), then is it the most important time to do so. When I have something important to tell my primary partner that involves our lifestyle rules … Continue reading
Tagged As: alternative relationship, bdsm, bisexual, casual sex, communication, dating, friends that fuck, open relationships, polyamory, relationship, romance, rules of engagement, sex, swinger, swingers, swinging
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