Category Archives: Gay Dating and Relationship Lifestyle Choices
Fear
There’s a song that I love so much I wear it out by listening to it over and over again sometimes; “Fear” by Mind.in.a.Box. Something about the lyrics and the way it’s presented speaks to me. I also love the … Continue reading
The Talk Realized
THE TALK went well, though it was more difficult that I first thought. He had truly put a great deal of thought into the situation. I have never encountered that within the lifestyle. Of course, I have never been this interested in … Continue reading
Tagged As: bisexual, gay, GLBT, honesty, lifestyle, sex, swinger, swinging, transexual
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Grilled Lettuce, Bacon, and Tomato sandwiches?
No…this isn’t a blog about food. Although that sandwich sounds tempting! I’m talking about GLBT: Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transsexual/Transgendered lifestyles. Why are there so many around nowadays? Why are they suddenly demanding rights? Aren’t they against the whole grain … Continue reading
Tagged As: bisexual, female, gay, homosexual, intersex, lesbian, male, pansexual, polysexual, transgendered, transsexual
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Lifestyle Perils: Is it worth it?
Is having sex and relationships outside of my marriage worth the perils it opens me up to? I think so; however, I have an incredible support structure in my partner. The rules NEVER change with him. When he or I feel … Continue reading
Tagged As: cheating, conflict, gay, group sex, jealousy, lesbians, lies, lifestyle, love, online dating, orgy, polyamorous, polyamory, sex, swap, swinger, threesomes
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Raincoats
In the world of doing the nasty with multiple partners—whether those partners are with you one at a time or in plurality—the question arises: “Bareback or fully covered?” But should this ever be a question? Does it ever need be … Continue reading
Tagged As: condom, health, partner, protection, safe, sex
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It Gets Better: A Call to Action
I went out for breakfast today. The Eggs Michael (a variation on Eggs Benedict) was insanely delicious! I grabbed a local entertainment periodical from near the door and settled in to an all-around wonderful experience. Then it got better! I … Continue reading
Gay and Republican? Get this…
During Monday’s Republican debate, every single candidate voiced their opinion that same-sex marriages (an issue that touches all of us – gay, lesbian, bisexual and transsexuals) should be prohibited legally. Of the seven presidential hopefuls arising from the Republican party, … Continue reading
Tagged As: Bachmann, bisexual, children, Constitutional Amendment, Defense of Marriage Act, gay, gay marriage, GLBT, Herman Cain, kids, lesbian, marriage licenses, Newt Gingrich, president, Republican, Republican Debate, Ron Paul, same-sex marriage, transgender, transsexual
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Where is the P in GLBT?
All of us have distinctive experiences, and your sexuality (Gay-Lesbian-Bi-Trans) is beautiful and uniquely yours. I have a protest for the GLBT community, though: Where is the P in GLBT? I am pansexual. The short version is, “I love everybody.” … Continue reading
Rock-Paper-Scissors
She arrived very suddenly into my life…a friend request…a heartfelt hello…wholly positive. We had natural flow; well, at least I felt like we do. There is a natural dialogue there that somehow belays all of my fears. When we reached … Continue reading