Category Archives: Online Social Dating and Relationships
Disgusting Wooing Tactics (Part 3)
So, I have covered the Wounded Duck and the Communication Saturation tactics over the last couple of days. That only leaves me with one more disgusting wooing technique to cover (though there are many others I am not covering). This … Continue reading
Tagged As: courting, dating, deceptive dating, jack of all trades, liar, lying to get sex, misrepresentation, unemployed, wooing
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Disgusting Wooing Tactics (Part 2)
Yesterday, I shared the first disgusting trend in courting which I have seen a lot of lately: the wounded duck. What an unpleasant experience that one is from the get go. Today’s disgusting tactic is one that is somewhat of … Continue reading
Disgusting Wooing Tactics (Part 1)
Today begins a three part series on some very unpleasant trends that I am seeing men and women employ while trying to woo (attract) and keep possible mates, whether for short-term or long-term arrangements. These are disturbing, but are obviously prominent enough … Continue reading
SURPRISE! Here’s my fetish…do something with it!
It takes deep intestinal fortitude to come clean with people about some of our more risqué fetishes, especially if they are extremely niche or taboo. It is one thing if we meet a potential playmate or partner through a venue that … Continue reading
Tagged As: bdsm, edge play, extreme anal play, fetish, insertion, taboo
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Build Rapport Before You Make Requests
“Hey, I like your profile a lot. Why don’t you chat with me on Yahoo/Skype/AIM? Here is my ID…” To me, my friends, statements like the one above are equal to walking up to a stranger in a bar and … Continue reading
All the Right Questions
Getting to know someone online can be an exciting time. Pictures and details of their life come streaming instantly into your home for your own viewing pleasure. You can read and re-read their words, save and scrutinize their pictures, and … Continue reading
Tagged As: background check, dates, dating, dating online, meet ups, meeting up, no strings attached sex, online dating, online predators, online safety, safe sex, stalkers
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Professional, Discrete and GLBT-P
Presumptions abound in the straight world regarding members of the GLBT-P community. One of them that irritates me the most is the belief that gay men are mostly flamboyant. Yes, they are out there; you may even be one, but it is … Continue reading
Tagged As: dating, gay dating, gay men, gay social networks, GLBT, homosexuals, lesbian, lesbians, LGBT, LGBTQ, love, marriage, online dating, online gay dating, pansexual, romance, romantic, shy, social networking, transgenders, transsexuals
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The Sludge of Disappointment
Dear Lonely Ones, DO NOT GIVE UP! Albert Einstein is credited with defining insanity as doing the same thing over and over again while expecting different results. This concept forever changed my life. Because of its message and the profound … Continue reading
Tagged As: dating, friends, gay dating, lesbian dating, life coach, lonely, marriage, online dating, positive life change, romance, social networks, socializing
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Like Attracts Like: Constructing Effective Profiles
Regardless of why you are exploring the online dating networks, it can be frustrating when you receive responses that are not exactly what you are looking for. So, it is important that you evaluate what your goals are, and then tailor … Continue reading
Male Seeking Female for…Cuddling?
The cat is out of the bag, my friends: Men in long-term relationships need cuddling as much as, if not more than, their female counterparts! According to a recent, international study conducted by the Kinsey Institute at Indiana University, and published … Continue reading
Tagged As: Archives of Sexual Behavior, cuddle, cuddling, intimacy, intimacy needs, Kinsey Institute at Indiana University, long-term relationships, love, marriage, relationship satisfaction, romance, sexual satisfaction
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