Category Archives: Terms and Definitions
Unicorns Are Real!
For swingers, unicorns are the golden ticket. No, I am not talking about a horny horse (teehee); I am talking about the rare and ellusive single, bisexual female who is willing to participate in swinger and lifestyle activities. Everyone who … Continue reading
Power Bottom: A New Context
The most common context for the term “power bottom” is found within the gay male community. However, I have recently encountered a situation that seems to warrant another use for the term. Before I share the recent discovery, allow me … Continue reading
Tagged As: anal sex, bdsm, bisexual, bottom, discipline, dominance, dominant, fetish, gay, GLBT, homosexual, lesbian, master, mistress, pansexual, power bottom, relationship, slave, submissive, top
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Hashtag: “#beskrivdittsexlivmedenfilmtitel”
Confused by the article title? That may be because it is written in Swedish. First off, a hashtag is a tag embedded within a Twitter microblog. They are used to create groupings which make searches for specific topics easier to follow. … Continue reading
Sabbatical Over!
Yes, I needed some time off from writing; life gets that way sometimes. The good news is that despite the lack of writing, I have had many adventures of which I plan to share with you. If you have followed me … Continue reading
Tagged As: bdsm, bisexual, multiamory, pansexual, polyamory, polyphilia, sex, siren
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The Fine Art of Tribadism
Nothing is hotter than watching two women chasing the O with each other. Girl-on-girl oral sex is amazing to watch. We know that we don’t have the cock to fill our lover’s vault, so we make the oral sex especially … Continue reading
Tagged As: clit, gay women, genital rubbing, girl-on-girl sex, GLBT, lesbians, LGBT, oral sex, orgasm, tribadism, tribbing, vulva
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Open Relationships: The Basic Types
More and more couples are throwing in the towel on monogamous relationships. There are many reasons for this, including bad past experiences, the desire to remain sexually non-committed, they are not fulfilled by a traditional relationship…the list goes on. So, … Continue reading
Tagged As: adultry, cheating, lovers, multiamory, multiple lovers, multiple partners, online dating, open marriages, open relationships, polyamory, polyphilia, rules of engagement
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Dominant/Submissive Versus Master/Slave in BDSM
Let me start by saying that the variety in types of BDSM relationships is as extensive as the number of people involved in it. Every single inter- and intra-personal characteristic of these unique relationships make them practical singularities. Still, there … Continue reading
Tagged As: bdsm, BDSM switch, bottom, dominance, dominant, fetish, master, power exchange, restraint, safe words, servant, serving, sexual boundaries, slave, submissive, submissiveness, top, training
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Ebb and Flow
Every month I am reminded (painfully) why women are commonly associated with the moon. Even our periods are named after the moon: Menstruation – menses = “month”; Month – moon cycle. Like the tide which ebbs and flows on our … Continue reading
Tagged As: chemistry, cycle, ebb, emotions, flow, lunar, menses, menstruation, moon, pms, tide
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Explain THAT!
Conservatives would argue that there is no such thing as being born homosexual. They would argue that homosexuality is both unnatural and a choice rather than a natural predisposition that could happen to anyone. They would even go so far … Continue reading
Tagged As: acceptance, bigotry, birth gender, conservative, hermaphrodite, homosexual, intersex
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Kink vs. Fetish
There seems to be some confusion in the world of sexually liberated social networking. I keep seeing the word “fetish” used in almost every description of sexual preference. For example “I have a leather fetish”, “I have a latex fetish”, … Continue reading