Category Archives: The Lifestyle / Swinging
Speaking a Dirty Mind
My thoughts are so filthy and depraved that speaking them face-to-face with another person makes me blush and hide my face. Oh, but I love my thoughts. I revel in them with all their grimy, perverse beauty. I enjoy submersing my consciousness … Continue reading
Tagged As: bdsm, bisexual, bondage, discipline, fantasies, fantasy, gang bang, GLBT, master, multiple partners, orgy, pansexual, polyamory, slave, sugar baby, threesome
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Call of the Wild: Sexual Encounters Outside
I have this fantasy about having sex outdoors with wreckless abandon. In my mind, the perversions visited on my body and the subsequent screams are done without reservation or shame. This is truly one of my favorite fantasies, but is … Continue reading
Too Many Balls Up in the Air
My father used to tell me that I could have either a lot of time or a lot of money, but RARELY would I have a lot of both. The truth could not be more plainly put than that. But, what … Continue reading
Tagged As: bisexual, casual sex, dating, dividing time between lovers, friends that fuck, lesbian, lifestyle, multiple partners, online dating, open relationships, polyamory, primary partner, relationship, scheduling social time, secondary partner, swinger
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Unicorns Are Real!
For swingers, unicorns are the golden ticket. No, I am not talking about a horny horse (teehee); I am talking about the rare and ellusive single, bisexual female who is willing to participate in swinger and lifestyle activities. Everyone who … Continue reading
Breaking the News: Talking About Your Fetishes and Kinks
Fetishists and kinksters often lurk in the shadows of a subculture due to the possible negative impact that their sexual and relational proclivities on their careers and family lives. There are times, however, when breaking the news of our secrets … Continue reading
Tagged As: alternative sex life, bdsm, bondage, discipline, disclosure, dominance, dominant, fetishists, kinksters, master, mistress, security, sexual proclivities, slave, submission, submissive, telling about your fetish
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Polyamory and Break-ups (Part 1)
You would be amazed at how strange if feels the first time you have a break up while you are practicing polyamory (or as I like to call it, multiamory). The primer: multiamory is a lifestyle in which you maintain … Continue reading
Tagged As: alternative dating arrangements, alternative relationship styles, alternative relationships, friends that fuck, GLBT, lifestyle, multiamorous, multiamory, open relationships, polyamorous, polyamory
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Lifestyle Red Flags: The Angry Partner
The Lifestyle isn’t the right path for everyone. In this case, when I say Lifestyle, I am referring to Swinging, Polyamory and any other alternative lifestyle which involves sex partners outside of one’s primary relationship. There is one particular behavior, … Continue reading
Tagged As: alternative relationship styles, compersion, jealousy, lifestyle activities, playmates, polyamory, swingers, swinging
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Is “Sluttiness” Contageous
When I was a young girl, my mother would warn me about who I spent time with by saying, “You are who you hang out with.” I get what she was saying: if you are seen with a girl who is a known … Continue reading
Sabbatical Over!
Yes, I needed some time off from writing; life gets that way sometimes. The good news is that despite the lack of writing, I have had many adventures of which I plan to share with you. If you have followed me … Continue reading
Tagged As: bdsm, bisexual, multiamory, pansexual, polyamory, polyphilia, sex, siren
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Fluid-Bonding: Emotive or Risk Connotations?
There is something primal that comes alive inside me when my husband fucks me from behind and cums inside me. I crave having his semen inside of me and often ask him to drive it deeply. We are fluid-bound. The … Continue reading
Tagged As: cum, cumming, fluid-bonding, orgasm, primary relationships, romance, secondary relationships, semen, sexually transmitted diseases, tertiary relationships
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