Category Archives: The Lifestyle / Swinging
Watching is Participation
So, you like the concept of the Lifestyle, but you don’t think you could ever be okay with actually having sex with anyone. I mean, maybe it’s okay for your lover to do it. Maybe it’s even a turn-on for … Continue reading
Tagged As: cock, dick, lifestyle, sex, voyeur
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Threesomes are popular
Threesomes are the subject that a lot of guys love to talk and brag about doing, but how many have really done it? You’d be surprised (or maybe not if you know a lot of braggart men) that it’s not … Continue reading
But then again, sometimes I just need a good lay!
Continuing on the topic of how I share very little in common with the stereotypical swinger, there’s this other part of me that rises to the surface sometimes who simply just wants to meet a stranger at a bar, take … Continue reading
Hanging out with another couple
Picking up with a swinger lifestyle is taking the hall pass a bit further. Swingers usually make it their lifestyle, to either hook up with other couples on a regular basis or find new couples to hook up with. A … Continue reading
Tagged As: couples, hookup, life, lifestyle, random, sex, swinger
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Every relationship can get stale
You can’t really lie and say there aren’t times when you don’t crave certain aspects of a relationship. Always knowing someone will have your back, jumping in to bed and having somewhere to warm up your feet and coming home … Continue reading
I am NOT a Swinger!
I have nothing against swingers. I have participated in the Lifestyle too many times to count. I used to even consider myself a swinger at one point. But then there came a time in my life when I just had … Continue reading
Tagged As: hook up, platonic, playmates, sex, singles, swingers
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(You) + (Your Partner) + (1 More) = Win3
I cannot tell you how many relationships that I have been in where we discussed bringing another woman into our bed. I thought the idea was HOT! Interestingly, it was almost always the guy that backed out (though, I will … Continue reading
Defending Against Jealousy
Jealousy is a real buzz kill. Yet, it is one of the greatest fears and obstacles for couples and singles striking out into alternative dating and relationship styles. Jealousy steals the fun and trust out of living these unique lifestyles. … Continue reading
“Rules of Engagement”
I don’t know about you guys, but I love the freedom of not having rules. If my husband is not home and I have company that I would like to entertain more intimately, all I need do is turn on … Continue reading
Isn’t It Called Cheating?
Just what is “cheating” anyway? How do you quantify it? Is it cheating when your lover holds hands with another? When they kiss on the lips? When they get into some heavy petting? When they exchange love letters? To get … Continue reading