Category Archives: The Lifestyle / Swinging
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What has me so worked up lately? Why do I ask so many questions? How can I keep writing about such edgy, taboo subjects? Where do I get off being so opinionated? Who the hell do I think I am … Continue reading
Tagged As: answers, change, development, evolution, interaction, learning, mark in history, perspective, questions, readers, religion, wasted life
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She Said What?
When a woman is new at sharing her man on any level, even when it is only a distant possibility, the need for communication is paramount. Every step in the beginning must be sort of like walking on the second … Continue reading
Tagged As: communication, lifestyle, multiple lovers, open relationships, potential lovers, swinging
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The Lifestyle, Divorce and Custody
Ladies and gentlemen of the lifestyle who have children, if you ever take the time to read one of my posts, make this the one you read until the end. Blue October is my favorite band; today I bought their … Continue reading
It’s Casual
I don’t believe in polyphilia. Having the freedom to engage in flirty, naked, and sometimes sexual fun with other people than my wife does not involve complicated relationship issues. Even though some of the people I engage in such activities … Continue reading
Bored Games II
(Continued from “Bored Games”) Turns out that was all the motivation my wife and I needed to start making more strategic moves. We quite literally beat the pants off the two of them…as well as their underwear and shirts. They … Continue reading
Bored Games
I generally don’t like board games and card games. There are few exceptions, like Scrabble and Blokus, but as a rule I avoid sitting down at the table to roll dice and move pieces around. It takes up alot of … Continue reading
Get Your PJs and Your Teddy Bear
I’ve always wanted to throw a pajama lock-in party. This might come as a surprise to some of you who’ve read my previous posts. I’m something of a nudist, and most clothing actually irritates my skin if worn for too … Continue reading
Tagged As: house-party, lock-in, merrymaking, pajama, party, pillow fight, pj, softie pants, teddy bear
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Time to Swap
Would you swap your spouse with someone else’s that you know? Perhaps you are envious of their life and want a taste of it for a week. Perhaps you feel unappreciated at home and want your spouse to have a … Continue reading
Off Limits
Have you ever wanted to fuck someone so badly that just thinking about them made the hairs stand up on the back of your neck? Have you ever felt this way about someone you can’t have? Oh, it is torture! … Continue reading
Tagged As: covet, fantasize, fantasy, friends that fuck, ftf, fuck, horny, lust, sex, unrequited
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Three’s Company
My wife recently asked me if I’d ever be interested in bringing a third party into our relationship as a romantic (as well as sexual) partner. Of course, the first thought that came to mind was, “Guy or girl?” To … Continue reading
Tagged As: affair, beau, envy, husband, inadequate, insecure, investment, jealousy, mistress, partner, possessive, relationship, romance, security, sex, sexual, spouse, threesome, wife
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